Getting the trust=keeping promises

Let me introduce something so interesting that has happened to me these days.

1. My girlfriend tried hard to let me meet someone that is very busy all the time. His schedule book has no spaces. He suggested we should meet in the afternoon on that day, but demanding Bennie said "No! I have girls' going-out in the afternoon, so in the evening I would be available." The girlfriend worked harder for the arrangement, and bore fruit. He is very diligent in his research, so he plans a lot for his work. I understood him very well now.

2. One day, a guy once made a promise with me in the afternoon for 2 hours. I tried very hard to save 2 hours for him cancelling other appointments at my work. The 2 hours are also significant , I considered, so sudden cancellation has been tremendously shock to me.

Comparing Case1. & 2. which one has got the trust of me? Sure, 1. He met us as we had promised even he was a very busy person. I think I'd like to associate someone like 1. He is a gentleman, good at planning, saving time for us! He said he'd like to visit me in Hiroshima, but I'm sorry but he will never be able to make it; he is BUSY all the time. As I've been moved with his polite behaviour, I'm ready to work for him as long as I can.

I will get this "Golden Horse" at Daisho-in Temple (Wish-come-true Temple, my other girlfriend named so!) for him...

Before going there, I have got to recover from this temporary sickness! Heatstroke!

(My office air-conditioned 28℃ central-controled! I'm helpless! I will buy a fan paying by myself. College never consider staff's safe/health. Electricity is everything to Japanese organisation, maybe after 3.11 in 2011.)